THE MAIN SECRET WHY MOST RELATIONSHIPS DON’T WORK.

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“You can’t claim to love anyone if you don’t love yourself, The best way of loving a person is never for what they have but love them the way they are”

Emiola Favor.

I THINK I AM IN LOVE!

According to militant liberal”Lust is the desire for their body while LOVE is the desire for their Soul”. Now! Are you truly in love or you’re just lusting over every woman or man that you see. As a woman are you lusting over the man because he has six packs, he’s tall, light or dark in complexion and you think that’s love. That girl or lady has curves, she’s has a big breast and big bum bum, probably she’s dark or light in complexion as well does not mean you truly love her.

Please check yourself! Ask yourself these questions:

  1. Am I ready to be committed to this woman or man?
  2. What if all I saw(curves, light, beauty, six packs, big boob’s) fade away, will I still love him/her?

To know the true intent or meaning of Love we have to be conversant with John 3:16. God’s love here tells a lot on what attribute love is bestowed on such as unconditional, sacrifice and lot more.

Love is caring, love is kind and it’s entails commitment, I do say to myself, how can a man love me when he’s not committed to God? How can he love me when He doesn’t love God? If a man or woman cannot be committed to God, he or she can never be to you.

Note: you’ll have your spec in a lady or man but the most important thing is that, will he or she be committed to me? Will he/she be ready to pray with me when things turns to be impossible?
How can you say you love me; when you’re not ready to sacrifice for me. John 3:16 speaks about the love of God toward Humanity for He gave his only son to the universe for the sins He knows nothing about…what a big sacrifice! God loves us and He sacrifice His only Son, if you love me, how do you make the sacrifice?

Love isn’t lust. Please key in to the source of Love (God). Stop been broken hearted and start planning to settle with perfect love that cast out fears, ego or negativity.

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25 thoughts on “THE MAIN SECRET WHY MOST RELATIONSHIPS DON’T WORK.”

  1. Wow. This is an amazing content. Keep up the good work. I learnt love is first within then without. You can’t give what you don’t have. Likewise for you to love people sincerely. You must know the attribute of God and God’s love for us, that even tho we don’t deserve it. He still loved us. God bless you.

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  2. That’s very true, nice writeup
    It’s sad that we are in a time where love and lust are mistaken
    If we truly love , then we will exhibit what Christ said through Apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 13. True love stands the true test of time.

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  9. Insightful work dear..
    This became clear to me from your write up and teaching:
    It is absolute Love for God FIRST; before love for another can be real and true.
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    The lord will bless the work of your hands.
    Kept it up.

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  12. Nice one sis,we really need to know what love is before dabbiing into it… Love is not all about what I see but what we can bear with even when we haven’t seen them.Love is God,unveiled, God is love..when a man is love-ruled,love -owned,love -motivated, he does not shrink any sacrifice

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  13. My dear sister, you have said what so many of us fail to say and do and thank you for standing to what is right, as much as this is difficult in this era we are in but still we will join you in spreading it. More anointing on you and you sure have my full support.

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    1. Love Promotes mental and emotional Wellbeing
      No matter what form it comes in, helps people incorporate safer behaviors into their everyday lives, reduces anxiety (worry, nervousness), and lowers the chance of developing depression or another form of mental activities. Also sense of belonging, sense of been cared for has great capacity of boosting your self esteem as well as making you very confident. I can tell you 70% people who have low self esteem is as a result of lack of affection right from their childhood. So having the feeling that you are loved and cherished gives you a satisfaction that can’t be explained.

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      3. This is so true, it would be a great added advantage to the whole of the dating world, if daters could take this kind of respect on board and use it, as they surff among the dating world crushing for their next relationship or fancy. The online dating platform is a place where people looking for the exact same confidance, tust and companionship as metioned above, need to feel like they are in a safe space where love and a sense of belonging should be more often present making the desperate feeling of abused and being used obsolite. So much to be learned from simple power of love, lets hope that daters find the strength to love for real.

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